by Tremayne Blair – tremayneblair.com

I think its hilarious to read some of the comments that some females put up in status talking about how men are dogs, perverts, and how sick and tired they are of men drooling and posting ob-seen comments on there photos, yet your profile picture and over half the photos in there albums have you parading around half naked in a bikini or what not…you can’t keep setting raw meat in front of a wolf and expect them not to get hungry!!…Because I can promise you one thing (And I’ve been guilty of this as well) anytime a man see’s any of those photos he’s only got one mindset flowing through his head….You then go on to complain that you only attracted “one kind of guy” well the problem to the equation is simple, your only attracted one kind of guy because your only advertising one thing….your flesh!!….you never even took a moment to introduce him to your heart….So just like a wolf, once he gets all he wants out of your flesh he will then move on to the next prey……If I may go even deeper into context, your body is a temple designed into perfection by God, and was blueprinted so that ONE man could enjoy all the treasures that come with it……..You keep demanding respect, and yet its clear that you don’t even respect yourself…..Here’s your “light bulb” for the week, You keep having bad luck with men because he’s falling for your looks and flesh, not your heart!!! …..yes attraction is one of the components that triggers a relationship, but that attraction is ment for him, AFTER marriage…not him and all 5 million men on facebook. This was an issue I use to struggle deeply with because I VERY MUCH so enjoyed looking at the flesh of a woman, but the more I purge my heart of the temptations and sins of the enemy and started filling it with the righteousness and fullness of God the more the flesh of a woman became superfluous. Because I’m starting to see that the heart of a woman is way more sexier than the cup size of one…